venus in 12th house synastry forum

I could feel something so deep. I have Jupiter sun and mars in his 12th house in cancer and I really hope I didnt hurt him. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. It can point to an affair or clandestine encounter. And it is hard and painful for a physical person like me. It's amazing. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". You will also find you share many of the same values, interests, and likes. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. Hi, Name Again. I actually feel I treated him wrong although he was a person whos been there for me when I was going through the hard time. He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. He always wants to make sure im not hungry and that i have money on me. Years ago i was dating someone whom i had the same aspect with. He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. Im terribly afraid of this 12th house. 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. Hi Aida! This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. Long time away for me. Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. but initially he said so many kind words to me. When dealing with the spirit world, there are both positive and negative, you know good and bad people and spirits. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). Generally when venus is other persons 12th house, its effect depends on is Venus strong by sign? When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheavenif somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, Im gone. My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. I attracted those people in my relationship. Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. He told you that he is not in love with you. I think we are a bit obsessive about each other although he seemed to be feeling it the worst. Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. The feeling that I am the only one dealing with the 12th house issues is so painful. Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. Infatuation can't run this deep. My north node in Cancer in the 12th conjuncts his venus and mercury. So Im confused about being confused lol Im dating someone all of our planets are 12th house but my natal chart is 12th house filled already.. everyone in his family knows about me and everyone in my family knows about him they know were also expecting a baby and so does social media lol .. He seemed very interested at first but the moment he felt I was getting attached he used the I am not looking for a relationship card. It's strange that i always dream about him. I have a very bad experience with someone's mars on my 12th house. Lol. so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. You are using an out of date browser. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. These are actions of some type. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. It just went down a long and winding road until it got out of control. Only because I feel his Mars in my subconscious,yelling at me to do better and not understanding that I dont respond well to that. Take the love goggles off. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? Hi GeminiRising! Venus in the 12th house Synastry ( Love that's hard to catch) - YouTube When Venus falls into ones 12th house things can get very tricky and vague. I couldn't forget him until now. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. We also have vertex conjuct Asc. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. Possibly. Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. But when I'm around him, it's like a physical stalemate. Positively both can help the other overcome their fears, discover hidden talents, or gifts. I trust everything happens for a reason! was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. Look for hard aspects from his venus to your planets. I can feel him there within me and he seems to be aware of things that I dont want him to be eg. Just give it time and have moderately high standards for yourself. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? I have friends and one niece with Moon/Cancer who are entirely emotional and often easily bruised, though they hide it well under their hard, decorative shells. We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. so i point it out, and im more aware. A stripping of the egos for sure! It lasted for a year and we functioned well in the one-on-one, but had trouble integrating it with our lives. From there on, things never became the same anymore. Venus in 12th entirely depends on how well both people can handle Neptune. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! (Waving). Anyone else care to share? The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. I dont have other words for that. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf. Hes a vampire and hes not worth it. I mean your spirits are communicating with each other, that type of thing. I even took a sleep aid and could not sleep. Thats one thing I have been thinking about since reading other threads on the subject..also what house does your Venus fall in in his chart? Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? Hi Aida! Hi, Feeling. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. Double whammies in my opinion are like gateways of energy between the two people the energy is mutual, open, and receptive- going both ways. I dont think it was his fault he told me he was going through a lot and I know he was but he asked me be friends which I thought was friend zoning me but he has aquarius descendant and he told me to watch this movie afyer he asked to be fruends where the opening line was friends cant be friends and have sex and he said he wasnt done having sex. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. This is the 1st time I've ever felt like I've met my other half.. my soulmate. The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself. Thanks for sharing your experience:) Very psychic this 12th house Synastry, you really feel connected regardless if you are together or not it's like you exist on another plane 0: Very interesting article! How is in your case? Sent 3-5 times a week. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. Where their intention was not to help but to hurt. It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. He was so familiar, which I think it's because of the NN connections. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. . We have opposite rising signs. When we are together its like time is nothing. Neptune idealizes, and makes everything much more beautiful it rules feelings of ecstacy, perfection and the feelings of soulmates but he's a tricky fella once we fall from the high, it's hard to get over.It's not usually til much later we want to slap ourselves when the Neptune fog clears and reality set's in. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" Same thingsso magnetiche is plutonian, and his pluto trine my moon and sextile my venus and semisextile my sun. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. SPOOKY!! But I was raised by a Sun/Scorpio mother (with her Moon in Sagittarius) and Virgo ASC. One is Taurus and the other is Libra. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. Just count your blessings for the dance you experienced, and move on to someone/something new. I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. Hanging onto him and wishing for return engagements may bring you much heartache, and even loss he might be a sociopath and if that is how he rolls you could lose much in the ways of material goods. Trish how did you get over it!?! It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. Here are the examples i want to share with you. I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . We've been seeing each other for over a month now. Hi, Heather. I have known that this house related to karmic connection. Should I run now?? And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. I've been rather busy these days but am always happy to answer questions:) The 12th house is about as mysterious and the afterlife! but I CAN (4-Sag placement, counting the PF), and thus I DID. maybe it was some inner knowledge of how he is deep inside. His sun falls in my 8th and his moon in my 12th where my sun is. I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th.

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